All articles tagged “protecting yourself”
Grief and loss: Why we feel them and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Harassment makes you grieve real losses, like your time, safety, trust, and plans you had. Why it comes in waves, and what he...
Shock, confusion, and disbelief: Why we feel them and what can help
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Shock and disbelief are normal, and are often delayed. So go easy, hold off on big decisions, and trust your own memory.
How to navigate a world that’s not just
November 15, 2022 - Jaylin Bradbury | Harassment is a betrayal of the fairness we're promised. Why it shakes your trust, and how telling your story helps you rebui...
How (and why) to build a support network
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Support from other people really helps. Pick people who listen without taking over, be careful who you tell at work, and don'...
Who blows the whistle on sexual harassment, and what happens to them afterward
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Whistleblowers pay a heavy price and rarely get justice—yet nearly all would do it again. If that's you, you probably alrea...
How to decide whether to quit your job—and how to make that work
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | Most people who quit don't regret it, so the real question is how to leave well: line up a job, see a lawyer first, and let g...
How (and why) to document everything
November 15, 2022 - Aftermetoo | How to keep a log and evidence that will hold up, and the one rule: never write down what you'd never want anyone to see.